sadgrl

To pi-anochik & musicchicus, What wonderful suggestions. You know sometimes we just can't see what is really in front of us. I really do think that wedding would have been kind of odd!!! I only hope and pray that when he does look at my real photo that's not the end of it. But, on the other hand what do I have to lose. I couldn't go around with a bag on my head just so that he couldn't see my face. This may be one of the hardest lessons I am going to have to learn. To think he really did fall for the real me, and it might be because of the fake me I lose him. Isn't that a lesson!!! Sadgrl

Hello Group.... I am new to cyber anything. I need some advice on how to handle this situation. Briefly I'll explain. I met a man through one of the online dating groups. We have emailed for some time and he has told me he has fallen completely in love with me. I have tried to verify everything he has told me so far and it has been true. We are not young kids and this could be something really wonderful EXCEPT for the fact I have not sent him my real photo. I know this sounds ridiculus but this man would not give a woman who looks like me a 2nd look. I am not fat or anything. But very plain. The photo he thinks is me is beautiful. Everything he has told me was before seeing any photo. So he was in love with me the person that was writing. But now he is determined that we finally meet. Where ever I want but we must. How do I tell him the truth without him thinking I am a lier about everything I have told him? I have had several opportunities to get out of this mess and never took them. I was to afraid. Please help me so I don't lose before I start. Thank you so much Sadgrl