kimmydoll46

I am willing to work with him. But what if he does not want to follow through w/ professional help? What can I do to assist in it so that he loses the urge to make these calls?

My boyfriend of 2 yrs. confessed to me last night he is addicted to "lesbian conversation/etc. via phone). We get along great, but since last Oct. I had been finding #'s to chat/date/sex lines and calls to his ex-girlfriend (who is bi). He knew that the calls hur me, ( i found them on his cell bill) and said he would stop. The final blow up was yesterday and he confessed this to me re: the addiction and that it's nothing wrong with me and he does not want me to be involved with women or otherwise, but its problem he has. Is this normal for a guy? It really hurts because any type of sexual conversation outside your relationship is wrong in my eyes. He swears he's not sleeping with anyone else, but you don't have to "physically" have sex to cheat. Please give me your thoughts.