Donnyboy

What is it about having sex with someone that's not your partner that is inherently wrong? IMHO the answer is in the question. It's inherently wrong because of the way it makes me feel. I feel that way, I think, more because of instinct than religeous or other laws or because of love/intamacy. The same sort of question as "Why do you want to have sex with a man rather than a woman (or vice versa)?" I'm not heterosexual because the bible tells me to be. I just am & always was. When I discovered my partner cheating I was really surprised at the overwhelming urge I got to beat the other guy to a pulp & make sure he stayed away from my partner & my family stayed intact & I did not end up looking after one of his kids. There was no intellectual thought process whatsoever in what I wanted, though thankfully I did think carefully about how I got what I wanted & stayed out of prison. But that's the way I feel & others will feel differently & are (thankfully in this country & some others) free to make their own decisions about their own lives.