gymrat625

I may wait to ask him out for a while, until we can carry a little bit more conversation at the gym. But it is good to to know it is okay for a girl to ask a guy out. I know I am too stereo-typing, but in my very limited experiences, guys always asked all the questions, phone number and out for a date.

I have been exchanging smiles and occasional 'hi's with a very nice-looking guy at the gym every weekend for 6 months. I finally introduced myself last week, just to find out he is very shy. But I feel he is interested in me (& my friend who came to check what's going on agrees). I would like to get to know him more but do not want to sound too nosey by asking him all the questions. Talking about myself too much without being asked doens't sound right to me either. But at this point I can't find anything common between us (beside workout) to talk about. Questions to shy guys (I apologize in advance if I sound too gender stereo-typing): Would you feel offended if a girl asks you out (before you have enough nerve to ask her out)? Thanks!