daisychain

Thanks for replying. We've tried to work it out, its about financial positions aswell - cant afford to live together and rent a place if we are both at uni, renting is so expensive. Just feels like the only way for us to achieve what we want is not be living together - and he lives 70 miles away so its not as though its just around the corner. I know he loves me, and I love him with all my heart - maybe once weve achieved what we want to, in time if its meant to be we will get back together. Thanks again for the replies, keep 'em coming xx

Thanks, this is definitely going to be a great place to vent, and come when I feel down. Great forum! Just hope things get better soon

Hi Guys, Newbie here. Just split with my fiance of 2 years, we were supposed to be getting married in June - but he decided he couldnt go through with it, as he doesnt feel like he has achieved what he needs to in life, and thereforeeee wont be a good husband. I am devasted, I came back to my parents last night and just dont know what to do with myself - I just love him so much. We never really had much money (and my parents are quite comfortable) so he said he feels i'll have a better life, and in a way I understand because he is a bit mixed up himself at the moment and doesnt know what he wants to do career wise etc etc, he calls himself a wanderer. I think i tried to cage a flying bird and failed. I just miss him so much, will it get better? In a way I dont want it too cos I just want him to still be with me. Don't know how im gonna cope not having him in my life. We are still talking and spoke a couple of times today - he seems to be taking it better than me even though he upset. Has anyone got any advice?? I've decided that im going to do something that i've always wanted to do and never thought i'd have the opportunity, which is to train as a teacher - this has made me feel more positive. I suppose I just want to know that things will get better? Anyone been through a similar thing? x