This is going to sound so bad but I've gained access to my boyfriends e-mail accounts and myspace account. I found out that he's been talking with other girls whom he knows personally but on a much more 'deeper' level. I have proof that he's taken their 'friend' relationship TOO far. How can I approach him about this without saying, "Hun, I've been able to access your accounts and I know what you've been doing." HELP! I'm going crazy. If I ask him about something, he gets all defensive and he always gives me the line, "Don't you trust me?" which is starting to piss me off.
I've also looked on his phone and have seen a few calls to this one girl and his text message box has been emptied daily (which never used to happen). He also received an e-mail from one of the girls saying that she can't stop thinking about him and that she really likes him etc and that she's getting more comfortable around him so he should watch out. I then saw in his e-mail account (in the trash bin) that he had LOTS of pictures from this girl (nothing bad, just pictures, a couple of her backside..etc). HELP ME!!!!