I am in a six month long lesbian relationship. She is the mother of three, and lives with her kids and ex-husband. They have separate rooms, yet he has a lot of control over her, and makes the rules of the house. In the beginning, we shared a bed while I visited. Now, he says no, because our room is downstairs and too in view of the household. I dealt with that. However, she runs herself ragged for her kids.20-16-7. She never tells them no. Lately she has been trying to get her house in order and has not spent a lot of time with me. We live 30 mins from one another. Her job is driving her crazy, she is always extremely tired, and says she has no time for anything anymore. I finally told her fine. I will be here if she can see me. Did i do the right thing? I had been asking when i would see her again. That inly pissed her off. I need advise. Thank you.
