Gregg827

Well, if anyone is interested, I told "Mary" to give "Ron" another chance. I think she needs to get it out of her system. If she was thinking about him still, it shows that she couldn't give her undivided attention to me. However, on Monday she did tell me she loved me. I just have to wait things out. In an undisclosed amount of time (hopefully not long) I will either be over it, or have a new girlfriend.

That's what scares me, because I almost don't believe that. I have never met someone like her before. Not to sound cheesy, but she is everything I've dreamed of. I want to avoid specifics, but we're both involved in a certain field of study that very few people find interesting, or even consider learning about; in fact, she is the only girl I've ever met that agrees with me on these certain topics. I am a very picky person and that's why I am so excited about "Mary." Thanks everyone for your comments so far; I will mull them over and see what happens. I have so many hypothetical situations in my head right now and it's going to take a while for me to decide.

Here's one to think about... I am pretty much in love with this girl, for argument's sake, let's call her "Mary." I'm also pretty good friends with this guy, for argument's sake we'll call "Ron." Mary and Ron dated for about 8 months last year, then Ron stopped having the feelings and they broke up. They tried again this year for about a week and didn't succeed. Then I came in. I'm recently out of a long relationship but quickly got over her, since I knew it had to end far earlier than it actually did. So, Mary is not just a rebound girl. We got very close and hung out a lot, to make a long story short. But, last night, she pretty much told me "I'm falling in love with you...but...Ron contacted me to tell me he's still in love with me and wants another chance." If he didn't say anything to her the other day things would have worked out with me and her. Also, he doesn't want to get started in something until around May, when he has more time. This means I won't know if they are going to work it out for four months. What's everyone's opinion on this? Is it right for Mary to give Ron another chance? Or, since she said she's really into me, should it be "my turn"? The way I am seeing it now is that Ron's recent move on Mary was inconsiderate and ill-timed, since he knows what's been going on. But, I don't think he knows how strongly I feel for her. I'm interested in hearing what everyone has to say.