FairyWings6118

Thanks for the replies. Well quite a bit has happened since my original post. He imed me on instant messenger and explained to me that his ex was looking through his myspace and he didnt want her to find my profile and make a big deal over the comments. She wants him back and he hasn't gone back with her yet. We all went to a party for a mutual friend and he was there, and so was his ex. They weren't really close or anything, just friendly. He made alot of eye contact with me and at the end of the night when we were all leaving he asked me for a hug and i said sure. He told me I smelled good and winked at me. He still hasn't gotten back with his ex. He imed me last night and told me he was happy to see me the other night and that he missed our conversations. I don't know what to think. His ex wants him back, why hasn't he gotten back with her yet? I know part of him still loves her so why doesn't he just do it?

So I met this guy, lets call him "D", twice in person through a mutual friend. I am 20 and he is 35. Immediately we got along well and started flirting, there was an obvious attraction there, though at the time we were both caught up in messy relationships. The second time we saw eachother he gave me the address to his myspace. About 4 months later after ridding myself of my cheating boyfriend, I logged on to D's myspace and requested him to be my friend. He accepted and messged me catching me up on his life (he was now single too) and telling me he was glad I requested him. This was a month ago. For 3 weeks we spoke alot back and forth, through myspace, email, AIM, and phone. He was still hurt by his ex wife who slept with his best friend, and I comforted him. He said I made him smile and was helping him get better. At the beginning of last week he said we should meet for lunch on thursday, I agreed. Wednesday morning I get a text telling me he cant do lunch because hes feeling too depressed. I found this odd considering our date was for the following day, but I texted back telling him it was fine. Ever since then I have received no more messages, phone calls, texts or anything from him except on New Years when he texted me a sweet message. Yesterday I logged on to his site and saw he had now put "in a relationship" and then reverted back to "single" today. However, he ignored my message asking him how things were going for him, removed me from his top friends list, and posted an old picture of him and another girl on his site. What went wrong? Sorry for the long post. Thanx in advance