Hello Everyone, been awhile since I've posted. I've been through so much. I didn't know how low I could ever sink. I am much better, getting by. I can even smile again. I am going through so many emotions that it's crazy. One minute I'm sad, the next I am excited about the future (isn't that strange?). My husband was dragging his feet, although he still wanted out, so I filed for divorce myself. It has now started. I will have to be ok with it. He is such a changed person. He is alienating friends. Everyone keeps asking me what is wrong with him, if he is on drugs, because he seems to be so. Drugs meaning steriods. His mood swings are award winning. Saturday he called me 6 or 7 times....wanting to hear my voice....can he spend the night with me....you get the picture...of course I said no. Then he turned on me. Strange. I just don't know him anymore. My heart still skips a beat when I remember the man before or all the memories, but hopefully that will fade. I am keeping the house and hopefully my sanity. Thanks to everyone who helped me through the very beginning when I thought I was going to die.