Hi,this is the first time I have ever gone on any site like this.I have been married for 21 years,my husband always said he loved me,he played songs and said they made him think of me and sweet things like that.About two months ago we got in an argument we said mean things to each other,I told him I hate him, after words i said i was sorry,and I think he knew i ment it, I think it was around that time he stopped saying he loved me,and doing sweet things for me,he only said it after I did.anyway just last week i asked if he loves me anymore,he said his feelings have changed,but wont say how,we still sleep together,he told me he loved me the other day,but he is still not the same.I have been being very nice to him,yesterday i bought him a card saying how I miss things the way they were.and how much I love him,I asked if he is in love with me anymore,he said I dont know how I feel, is it possiable to get back the love we once had,this is tearing me apart,after 21 years can someone fall out of love,if so do you think he will ever love me again?someone please tell me what to do.I am so confused
