FallingTooFast

I'm really curious as to why you think you are pregnant.

You haven't missed a period yet, right?

Are you having any pregnancy symptoms?

When do you think you got pregnant?

Are you and your boyfriend still having sex, or are you holding off for now?

I have had pregnancy symptoms.

I don't know when i got pregnant, in between October 20th and a couple weeks ago.

We're holding off for now until we know for sure.

yeah I bought the test but I can't take it until the end of the month...

Thanks for the help

Yeah but they check my mail. When I get a package from one of my best friends they stand over my shoulder like a hawk.

I can't take the test until the end of the month.

I know it's a little early to really know, but I'd rather be over-cautious than under-cautious.

Not yet. I want to make sure first, because I don't want to get them in it if I'm not.

But my partner and I have talked about how to tell them when (if) the time comes.

I know you didn't mean that as an attack.

And I know everything is expensive and that I can't do everything when I want, such as showers.

I know that I can't hand him/her off to anyone. I don't think I would try to.

On the who's paying for this thing: He's getting/got a job. I've got a job. And we know how to conserve money, we both know how expensive diapers and formula are.

Thanks for the points though.

This isn't an attack back.

make sure you stay healthy and away from anything that can hurt your child. i lost my son not too long ago. She is 15 too. she was 15 weeks. make sure to get checked up. dont eat too many acidic foods, be around smoking or start to smoke, dont drink or start, and dont stand near microwaves.

also dont play too rough. what are all the things you have gone through; breast feeding, etc.

Thank you for the advice.

Yeah I'm trying to be as careful as possible just in case. And it's hard in the hallways in school but my partner pushes through in front of me.

The hallways these days are like the metro in NewYork/DC!

Again thanks for the advice.

BTR:

I know I probably sound naive. And I know I don't know EVERYTHING of what I'm getting in to. But I know I'm not expecting to have a perfect relationship with my child. I know that there are problems. I know that it's a life, and I know it'll depend on me. I also know that once you have a child, they are your life, you give up everything for them.

I know that because I have babysat a child for now almost 3 years, since she was born. She's wonderful, I don't know what I'd do without her. In some ways I act as though she's my child. I care for her like she's my own.

I know you're trying to show me what problems come with this, and thank you, but I know a lot more than you guys think.

KB:

I have not mentioned our relationship staus in this post, but in another. And most of the people who had read this post had read the other.Thank you for your concern, and I'm not trying to attack her, I'm trying to defend my boyfriend and myself.

thanks much guys

Thank you for sharing your story.

And thank you for not criticizing what you don't know.

My boyfriend is a lot like your partner, it seems.

He's a great supporter, and he's there for me.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I hope you keep updating us.

Well I've had both types.

I have an ex who says everything in the world hateful about me. Even though he used to buy me little stuffed animals and spend all his time with me (he's a thug, gangsta type).

And then I have an ex who's my best friend

And then I have an ex who's mad at me for breaking up with him even though he's the one who was cheating on me. And he's still mad at me over a year later. Even though he's got another girl who he says is his life.

I think that they're just trying to get themselves over you.

Oh my gosh! He's so smart!

I'd love for my kid to end up like him!

I'm sorry that the other grandma doesn't follow up but your efforts are great!

Haha, yeah a girl I babysit started calling her mother by her first name as well, because everyone else calls her by that.

I know what I'm headed into.

And I know what im not going to be allowed to do.

I know my expectations.

And I know my restrictions.

We have both planned for the worst.

We're not clueless.

We've gone over and over the different scenarios.

-Boy

-Girl

-Birth deffects

-everything.

I just hate how you guys are steriotyping teenage boys.

They aren't all the same.

Why are some people on here so against the underage men?

My boyfriend has promised me everything, He would promise me the world if he could.

I have said nothing to have anyone believe he is anything but helpful.

He's the one who said he would wake up 4-5 times a night to help with the baby, even though I said I would.

He's not like most of the "hormone raging" teenagers.

He's different. And I would really appretiate if you would stop trying to judge him, when you don't even know him.

Waiting a week is like torture when you think you're pregnant.

oh god I know born!

I have to wait 2 weeks to take my test.

But how is her post not disrespectful!

She doesn't know anything about my boyfriend!

She's obviously had problems with men or something but she doesn't have to take it out on me, my boyfriend, or my post!

Awww RODEO!!

That's such a great experience.

Sorry for confusing you guys.

No I'm not certain that I'm pregnant.

But I have told my boyfriend and two of my bestfriends that it's a possibility.

Right now they're the only ones that have touched my stomach and my boyfriend is the only one who talked to my stomach. (Even though they don't get their ears until later.)

I'm pretty sure I am, just haven't taken the test yet.

I'm taking the test on Sunday, so I'll keep you updated.

I think at this point, of how much we have planned and planned, I really want this baby, I know I shouldn't, that I'm too young to really think about that. But I really do want this baby, and I know once I get it through to my parents, they'll be happy for me.

But I'll probably be mroe upset if the test is negative than if it's posative.

Yeah I know that 15 is young, but this wasn't planned.

I don't believe in abortion so this is what I have to live with.

I hope to have as successful of children as Rodeo-rider.

Thanks guys for your support

 

Make sure you pick up "Goodnight Moon" wonderful bedtime book. This is my grandson's favorite.

THat was my FAVORITE book when i was a young child.

I agree BornToResist.

I'm only 15...It says on my page.

My family is not understanding and I think they'll be less understanding once they find out.

It's not hard to fall in love with someone within a little while.

My boyfriend and I fell in love within the first month of us dating.

Haha, no I think you'd be okay to rub my stomach. You're not a complete stranger (though I think it would be funny for you to try and find me.)

Yeah it should be a wonderful time, minus the pains and such.

But the thing I'm most worried about is my parents and my extended familf finding out. I mean I'm young. They DO NOT expect this from me at all.

VM, yeah I'm not certain yet, but I have had all the symptoms and I'm 90 percent sure that I am. But I have to still take the test, but I have to wait until my period is due to take the test I bought.

My daughter used to rub my belly when I was pregnant with my son.

I think that's adorable. It's a sign that they're getting used to the baby and that they have a concept of what's happening.

I think thats so cute.

I don't like people touching me. Yes, I'm pregnant and that's a beautiful thing. But my body is not public property. Rub their bellies and see how they like it.

I've felt like that at some points.

Escpecially because I'm not showing yet. And it's not official.

My boyfriend and the two of my friend who I've told have started rubbing my stomach and talking to it.

Which with my boyfriend is alright that he,ya know, says hi and such. He's the father.

And my best friends it's okay, because they'll be around for the birth and such.

But the random people who see them rubbing my stomach and want to too. It's a little awkward.

When my daughter was pregnant, a man came up to her at the supermarket and started singing to her belly! I think it was "Love and Marriage"

 

How are you feeling?

Awww thats so sweet.

I think it's nice to do that, to an extent. I mean obviously the man loved pregant women. Who could blame him. Pregnancy tummys are cute. I think so at least.

I think I'm feeling okay. But I think I'll feel a lot better once I get the official results, whether posative or negative.

And telling my parents is going to be the hardest part.