reluctan2breath

lol and the loose jokes and everything might seem funny and all... but refrain from continuing them. my vagina is perfectly normal in health and size, and after periods of none usage, putting in one finger is very tight =) thank you very much.

it is incredible how I started this thread with one topic in mind, and alot of people get caught up in thinking that i am going around looking for hung guys, or that those are the only ones i'll date... NOT ONCE DID I EVER SAY THAT! See how it's you (guys) who obsses over the whole size thing and twist and conjure it up in your brains through irrelevant methodology? First off, i do not go up to guys and say, "are you over 8 inches, cuz that is the only size i'll date..." never said that i did... i do not believe that sex is what a relationship revolves around, and am personally against it, or do people just skim over my original post and completely ignore the fact that i stated explicitly that i maintain and open mind and objective view on such things? the point of the matter is that alot of you are too concerned giving me advice about "good luck finding a guy that big" when thats not why i started this thread... never did i ask "oh my goodness, please, where do all the magnum guys hang out?" come on people. i started this with a simple question... am I the only girl who feels this way? that feels bad because the guys i've been with were small, and hated myself for finding them small? and to answer your question Slacker, i was speaking about sex partners, not in love lovers. .... and 4 inch fury, the reason people don't like you isn't because you have a small penis. i liked my previous boyfriends fine, and am perfectly good friends with them. you just come off as very obnoxious and annoying, and totally obsessed with your insecurities. do yourself a favor because if you were so "accepting" of your size, you wouldn't be going off on such unimportant tantrums on how i would know the size of my ex bf's. We engaged in sex more than several times, and had the chance to play with them and the lot when we were home alone, and its not an uncommon thing for me to ask them "how big is your penis?" that got me answers everytime. ... But yes the point is that I am not concerned with looking for hung guys exclusively... The day i find love I could give a damn about the penis size. Like i said earlier i'm not shallow. Just wonder if there were other girls in my situation who'd agree? cuz everyone usually attacks me and thinks i'm evil. like 4inches of fury over here.

statistics aren't always going to be accurate... its always a portion of the actual population. there's never a 100 percent sure way to know the absolute truth. and all i know is that i was with a guy that was 8 inches... how else would i know that i preferred it guys come on? and it was good. really good. thats all i'm saying. oh and as for measuring penises without a "measuring tape in my bra" its quite simple really. my hand is 6 inches from middle finger to the beginning fo my wrist. so when i go down on a guy, i touch and observe, and compare there member to the size of my hand basically.. its pretty easy to tell when a guy is two inches larger than my hand! its funny how you guys indirectly or sarcastically mock me... swear that i'm stupid or something... thats why i was iffy about posting in the beginning. i do however, appreciate the supportive comments btw!

well since you asked, personally i love clitoral stimulation. i love being eaten out and the whole fore play deal! i do. its never been a problem for me to come from it or anything like that. the issue comes into play with intercourse. i mean... like. i dunno. then there's the issue with how 2 of these guys had curved penises. prior to that hadn't seen it before. found it interesting i guess. don't think negative or positive about it for that matter, but the whole size thing? lol i think i'm getting horny

O.k. first off let me express my initial status as a newcomer to eNotAlone. I stumbled onto this site after surfing the web over a peculiar (if there is anything to call it) predicament i find myself in when it comes to guys and sex. the fact is that i hate it. i hate that once i'm done saying this i'm going to be criticized for being shallow, or being superficial, or being a but the truth is there's really not much i can do to help it... is there something wrong with me 'cause i feel that i need a big penis in order to be satisfied by a lover? i'm not a and have only had sex with close boyfriends and friends, (four guys since i was 15) and stand by my sexual activeness firmly and believe that there is nothing wrong and/or irresponsible about it. but the thing that i've discovered about myself, to my horror, is that the question "does size matter?" does matter to me... and i hate myself for it! oh man i really do. it makes me feel like such a bad person. 3 of the guys i have been with were 6inches or under... and it was just like... whatever. didn't feel too turned on by the way they looked, and wasn't impressed in the act either. and from what i've heard form their ex's these are guys who can perform very well in bed... just didn't cut it with me and it makes me feel so degenerate. like. ugh. it frusterates the hell outta me. i wish i could just be like, i dunno, how all the other girls seem to be about penis size. basically is there something wrong with me cuz i prefer atleast a thick 8 inches? i mean... like i almost feel disgusted with myself but its who i am, and no matter how objective or opened minded i try to be, i can't help it. please fellow ladies give me your input! i.e. preferred penis size and such, am i abnormal or what? and please refrain from any mean comments or anything of the sort. i'm here to look for support/help, not to be harassed, thank you very much i've heard it enough from 'friends'. sorry for the long post.. i feel so nervous as to what people are going to say.