sbever

We have alot of fun together both in and out of the bedroom. In general I feel good about what we have - it's this one thing that has started to annoy me after all this time and only started a few months ago. In the beginning it was erotic but it's now like watching the same show over and over and OVER again. Make sense?

We do talk very serious and it's only been going on for a few months and he tells me under no circumstances does he want to ever share me with someone else - he also does not want me to BE with someone else He says it's all such a mental picture - he loves thinking of how much pleasure I received. He tells me the turn on is knowing how good it made me feel. He tells me all I have to do is tell him when I'm fed up with it and that will be the end and he's gone through other "phases" and sometimes I like to talk about it too but I'm getting out of that "phase" myself. I know not everyone is in the same "phase" at the same time. I guess I need to just tell him it's getting old and move on to something else. If he has a problem with it then the relationship wasn't what we thought it was. We do talk very serious most other times - it's just in the evenings after work when we are talking he gets in the "tell me a story mood". What do you think guys?

I'm sorry Hope, I didn't comment on your response. It didn't bother me at first because I thought it would go away but it's getting a little old.

It's almost like it's a daily request - either on email or when we are together. In the beginning I thought it would pass quickly as a phase but it's been several months. He tells me the thought of me "being pleasured" by someone else is a turn on in his mind. I've never been around someone that wanted to hear about past. I know I don't want to hear about his past. He tells me he feel so secure in our relationship that the past intimacy does not bother him but loves the vision in his mind.

My Fiance' is always asking me to tell him about past sexual experiences. He gets turned on by hearing about intimate details. It's almost a daily occurrence. I'm beginning to think that is all that makes him aroused. Does anyone deal with similar situations? If so, please give some advice. Anyone else, please give an opinion - I'm not sure why he likes to hear it - is he not interested in our relationship? thanks to all....