LONESOUL

Darn, I knew it, he's not around you right now is he??!!

Crap! Grabs keys and...cat swatter and heads toward the door!!

(looking out for Beebee who may be intercepting for her new fuzzy little bf!)

Bye Kelo...

Thanks Sandy I guess it's allot funnier when you have had 13 margarita's!

Desert, wheres the cat? I left some beer in my car and now I am worried he's

out there.

Congrats to the "new" old farts. Please pass the Geritol.

My friend got a text from another of her friends saying someone was looking for her at the mall. When she asked who, they said I don't know but he was wearing a red suit and kept shouting your name "Ho...Ho...Ho!

Sandy you made me spilt out my water all over my desk and office!

keeeeeeep going almost there......

They would have already kicked my backside for whining if that were the case!!

Corned beef and cabbage and beer and good Irish music, on Christmas...

ehhhhh St Nick, St Patrick, at least they are both Saints!

I'm so in now! lol

300 Kelo...5 to go, post away. Talk to Desert's cat..lol!

Sandy...I knew you had a good head on your shoulders!!

And guess what Desert is right, our mailboxes go from 100 to

500!! whooooo type type type type!!!

Your mailbox gets bigger when you become a senior??? Who knew?

I thought it just meant gravity was about to take over our bodies!

I got to go backstage at a ZZ Top concert one time, it was ahhh, interesting.

Kleo..I do not like carrots~I think they should be banned from the earth.

I love corned beef and cabbage .No thats not what I meant but we

will sign you right up to bring that! Thanks! lol...oh and thanks for the warning too, ( note... no cabbage for Kelo...or the cat right Camber?)

Bring whatever you want to listen too~we'll adapt! lol

Sandy, what do you want to hear? Z?

Okay Camber and John, check in guys, we want to know how you are!

DYT, where's the love?

Irish soul stew~bring it on my friend the owner of a love sick feline!!

Hiding Kelo? Who me?? Lol

Hey Kelo~welcome to DIG. Since you're a very good friend of mine and a real sweetie and I know you have been reading this thread for a long time, I'll spare you the introductions.

Feel free to join and vent anytime you like!

I love drunkin irish music!! I'm going to get my mug!! (better to be ready then

left behind!)

Beebee is texting the cat!! They are so purrrfect together!

Thats the cycle, it's areal bear too. Sometimes they repeat over and over in no particular order. Just remember that each time you are getting closer and

closer to healed even though it doesn't feel it.

Been taking pics? You need to get ready because you are going to have to take allot of them at the Christmas party. Z in his jacket, Beebee and the cat dancing...Sandy, you and I draining the keg...lol! Camber, DYT and winter all dressed up...and the others, who have I missed??

What's everybody bringing...we can do pot luck!

Hey Camber do you want to have the band play?

Desert~You are not alone you have us! I understand how you feel though.

Try to look at it this way though, we all come into this world alone, and we all go out of this world alone. Maybe the idea is to become happy with just ourselves alone. Then if we find someone to share our days here with, great,

if not, we have what we have always had, ourselves. Be as good to yourself

as you would be to your SO right now. Be better even! You are catch dude!

Keep reminding yourself of that.

Sometimes I really "feel" the going through the motions part. I mean like I know I have to fake it till I make it, and sometimes I can do that pretty easy but other times, I'll just be going along and it will all hit be square in the face!

I hate that. Pisses me off. Which is better then making me sad I guess.

I guess i need to channel that anger better when it comes, it just hits me off guard I think. I am still amazed at how easliy it seemed her life just went on....I know it is not what it seems but what it seems still hurts.

Desert so true~we'll need duel meetings! lol

oh so not good...funny...but not good. Oh well,

"rehab is for quitters"

I know, way way too many Maragarita's. I had a good time though, everyone

has told me so...lol

I couldn't feel my hair Sandy. lol

Z~baby steps, you are doing great.

lol...the Ben and Jerry's diet! I love that, and h*ll no, not in my opinion,

I would be basking in the fact that she had gained weight! Mine didn't gain weight, but she is a physically beautiful woman, and the last two times I saw her rough, older, warn. I was glad somehow...maybe that evil, I don't care.

Hang in there Redmage22, the holidays do not last forever, you can get through it! It's good advice not to get sucked in to the sappy music

etc... keep busy. Dont think about ending it all~no one is worth your life.

You have a great life to look forward to, don't sell yourself short.

Take Good Care~post often

Lone

Sandy ~at least he can't rain on your paradeanymore, I'm glad. Seeing him there was hard on you.

My weekend was okay, kinda quiet, I did go out with friends Friday and get slammed though. I had a good time, but come Saturday morning...Man I hate a hangover! My ex sent me a text Saturday night at 9, all it said was

"are you okay? I didn't respond, I figure, she has lost the right to know.

Nice of her to be conerned though, guess the new bf must have been in the bathroom of something...

Someone please tell me in 10 years I won't remember

going through all this crap.

Z~ I totally understand.

About 12 times a day I think I want my ex back too.

Thank God about 13 times a day I remember why I don't.

You lovedsomeone, it will take time to heal. You will miss them.

All of our ex'es had their good points. Concentrate on the bad points (like

the fact you think she may have been cheating) Be honest with yourself

about the bad aspects of your realtionship. Ask yourself if you could ever

trust her again, and if it would be worth it. These times are tough I know.

We have to accept and learn move on. It won't be easy, it will be worth it.

lol...Gald you survived, hope you're better too.

Okay, I'll be wearing more than the cat then..lol!