Hi, I'm looking for any advice at all for this issue. My girlfriend does not want kids at all in her life... there are many factors contributing to this, i.e., not being able to provide financially the way her parents did, no tolerance for kids, not wanting responsibility and the list gets uglier as she tells it.
I, on the other hand, would love to be ready for a child someday. And while its not a deep selfish need, it is something I have imagined.
Now... this woman I love for everything but this difference.
Do we end??? I've suggested a therapist but my gf only replies with "we already know she will tell us to split" etc. What if I'm never ready to have children? What if I am?
My heart breaks every second. I dont want to lose us. Any opinions?
