neurotic penguin

that was a disturbing read...he fits most of those characteristics... then again, some of them describe me as well... this is really disheartening...

He said he knew how I would react because of my show of jealousies...does that justify this?

Hi everyone, this is my first post on this board. I've been in a relationship with my current bf for around a year now. We've had some rough times, but we've always managed to pull through. Recently I found out that he had been contacting a former interest of his through online and phone messaging...plus I discovered that he checks up on her webpage every now and then...also, he talked with her about the problems we've been having...even after stating that we would never talk to others about it. He told me that he did this to make her feel jealous. Why would he do this? Is it because he still has some feelings for her? He said he just wanted revenge for the rough times she put him through...but I'm not sure. It makes me feel really insecure and jealous myself. He also lied about her to me when explaining his past...he says he hid her because of the way I would react. I dont know what to do. Any input would be appreciated. I feel that it will end the relationship for me. Thanks.