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thanks i dont intend on being anything more then friends until he knows what he wants, thanks for the advice

I dont think im better then her,and i havent said that i am. All i know is that he has stated he is interested in me and thats my main concern that he is with someone (nothing to do with her age) and has expressed interest in me.

thanks to you all so far in regards to knowing if he has feeling towards me, he has clearly stated that he is very interested in me, if he hadnt i wouldnt be worrying about getting some opinions on the matter at hand. in regards to his girlfriends age, i would still make if he was with someone our age as he has expressed interest in me. As for insulting him, our group of friends is very open on all matters and something that may seem insulting to others, we know where its coming from and understand each others views, so im not 100% sure i wouldnt insult him, but i would take due care if i was to talk to him about it. anyway thanks so far any other replys welcome please

Hi peoples, Im interested in a young man who is 3 yrs younger then me, which i have no problem with. I'm 100% sure he is interested in me, there is just one major BUT, he is currently in a relationship with a lady 20 yrs his senior. They have been together for 3 months and met through their place of employment. He never speaks about her and when anyone sees them in public they are miles apart. He is not the hottest guy around and it's obivous he has a few self issues and myself and a bunch of our mutural friends feel he has just jumped at the first lady to show interest in him and that she is using him as she lonely and has no support. I find him to be a beautiful person and i cant tell him what i think about his relationship because i dont want to hurt him or loss his friendship. What can I do????