On Wednesday this guy that comes into my work asked for my number. I was taken for a loop & gave it to him. Well, he called my later that day & wanted to get together for dinner, I agreed. At dinner he seemed very interested & asked me a lot of questions about myself. When we left the resturant and got into his car to warm it up I got really nervous (bad vibes) he asked me how I felt about making out on the first date & I told him I don't like to. He said that was cool. Then he got kind of touchy feely with me. For example: helped me with my seat belt and felt on my thighs, pretended like he was picking something up off the floor & once again touched on my leg. I was so happy to get out of the car. He gave me a hug & said he'd call later in the week. My friends think I'm being paranoid since this was my first date.
So, yesterday he called & I told him I thought he was really nice but felt uncomfortable with the touchy feeling stuff. He apologized and said he really liked me & wouldn't mind taking things slow. The thing is I'm really not that attracted to him & he keeps calling me & wants to go out again. He is already referring to us as "we" and making plans for us during the summer. How do I let this guy down easy, I don't want to hurt his feelings.
