hilary19

Hi everyone,

I have real problems opening up to those closest to me. Even though I know I can trust them and that they support me fully, I just can't bring myself to include them on my innermost thoughts and feelings.

If anyone knows what might help with this problem I'd be really appreciative.

I am on the pill. I'll make an appointment with the doctor after Christmas, and make sure my diet is healthy in the meantime. It's reassuring to know it's a common problem!

I appear to have lost it.

I'm a healthy 19 year old girl with a gorgeous boyfriend. I just never feel in the mood for sex. I'm always too tired, or just not in the slightest bit interested.

What should I do? My boyfriend is starting to take it personally.

He knows it was wrong, I know temptation and curiosity are very hard to deal with. If I'm really honest, I probably would have done the same.

I'm not the type to share absolutely everything with a boyfriend. I love the fact that he knows me better than anyone, and that I can tell him anything, but what I email work related people/friends/family is entirely personal.

However, you were all right in saying that he was honest, upfront and apologetic. For that reason, I've dropped the issue.

I think Journalism is a bit of a ''Mickey Mouse'' degree. I too want to be a journalist, and looked at studying it. None of the courses really looked like they'd give you a serious grounding for a career in the media. thereforeeee, I decided to study English Literature with Politics. They're both relevant subjects, but give me the opportunity to move into different careers should I change my mind or am unsuccessful.

The most important thing is work experience. You must beef up your CV with it to be considered for jobs.

I do see what you and DN are saying. I also understand that things like emails and diaries are very tempting to read. It's the fact he gave into that temptation and looked into a private part of my life that bugs me. Perhaps I'm overreacting.

There's nothing quite like eye contact to make me hold my breath in anticipation. I think it's really erotic.

Cooking a nice meal? Always goes down well!

I split up with my ex a year and a half ago. It was my decision, and he had treated me badly for a number of months. However, I still find myself wondering what he's up to.

It can be hard to let go, but another motto to live by is ''whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger''.

I'm a model, and get a lot of emails from photographers/agencies etc. This one simply said ''Greetings from Heidi and Tobias!'' However, it comes up with ''Honey Heidi'' - guess that caught his eye.

This is my first post, so hello to you all!

I logged in to Yahoo on my boyfriend's laptop, and his internet browser remembered the password. When he came to check his own mail, mine came up. He rang me saying he couldn't resist having a look, and had read my emails. He was very apologetic and ashamed.

Perhaps understandably, I'm annoyed. I have a right to my privacy. However, he was very honest and deeply sorry. Should I let this one go?