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No, I don't think they had sex before. But this is not what disturbs me. I am annoyed of the fact that this is the FIRST time she goes in his city ESPECIALLY to see him and she will stay not in hotel, but in his house. Previous times he was the one who used to come in our small town to see her. In my opinion it seems painfully obvious she is going there with only one purpose - sex! My problem is that there is no way to prove what she intends to do. She may have sex with him, but also not. I can not be sure and if I blame her after that it will be a terrible mistake. Feelings are not facts. It is still indifferent for me what she will do (as I said before she is not my girlfriend yet), but I am not sure one day I will be calm and happy with girl like that who acts like a whore!

Thanks for your reply! You are right talking with her on this problem is the only way for solving it. But I believe tonight I showed myself too much as weak character. I asked too much about him and it makes my reputation in her eyes low. Or probably this is her aim. It is possible to make some experiments with me - just to see my reaction, I don't know. Actually now is becoming a little bit indifferent for me whether she will stay with him. She is even not my girlfriend yet and only God knows if she will be. I know only one thing - I don't need to suffer anymore for girls, cause it is useless. I prefer I didn't know what she is going to do in the weekend. I have just created a good imagination about her, I have just began to have sexual fantasies with her and now - a great disappointment. They will have sex, I am sure. I should stop my relation with her NOW. NOW before it gets too late! Or just to have sex with her after telling her I love you - it will be my sweet revenge if I understand she had sex with him. I also can be cruel!

Hi there! First of all, I don't know whether I am on the right place to set that topic. However, I decided to set it here, cause it seems to be the most visited by many people. Here is my problem. I have a profound feeling to a girl, I like her very much, she also likes me very much and we are almost on the gate of starting a relationship. Everything between us is so clear and nice. I really think I love her and soon I intend to make my confesion. But tonight, while talking with her, she told me that next weekend she intends to go to another city to meet a guy who is an old friend of her. She used to talk polite and nice things about him in the past, but tonight I really felt jealous. The worst thing is that she will stay in his house. It makes me feel bad, really bad. I am also almost sure I will not be able to sleep tonight. Yeah, I don't have the right to forbid her anything, but I've got the feeling they are going to have sex together. How cruel girls can be. I have never suspected she is able to deceive me. She is trying to attract as much guys as possible. She is tender with me and with him, she talks with me and after 30 minutes I catch her talking with him on the phone. Please, people help. What is the right choise? What should I do? Thanks for all advices in advance!