alwyslonly

I'm so frustrated. I have said all of this to him so many times. As for dressing up- I don't feel like it. I was always super skinny. Yes, I lost most of the weight, but your body doesn't bounce back immediately. It bothers me. And I feel like it's not my turn to make the effort. I did already.

He was happy about the pregnancy before I even knew how I felt. He's great with the baby although he works out of town a lot so I do sometimes feel resentful. But seriously...great with the baby. He was in the delivery room. He stayed near my head for all but a peek. He seemed okay. He did absolutely everything for the baby in the first week when I was tired and sore. I almost feel like he's going overboard with the father role and neglecting the partner role he play in the family. He says it's natural for man to have decreased desire after he procreates, yadda, yadda...read it in a book or something. Yes- I've tried initiating a few times around the 3 month mark. It was awkward. I finally gave up, waited a long time, brought it up, brought it up again... and on and on. I feel like I've passed the point of no return. He says he's trying to make tiny steps, which he is, but they're barely noticeable and I am automatically conditioned to shrug it off. I'm so mad about it and I can't get over it.

I have tried to find information as to why my BF still doesn't want to have sex, but everything is about women not wanting it. Nothing during the pregnancy either... It has been almost a year and a half and I am at the end of my rope. I'm dying to find anyone who has been through this experience.