Salvelinus

I created an account just to ask this question... It seems that most girls agree that they like when their boyfriend get "excited" while making out, but at what point in a relationship is a little "excitement" acceptable? What if this kiss with subsequent arousal occurred on a first date when the two people don't know each other very well yet? As a few guys have mentioned, the "getting a boner phobia" is a real concern for a lot of guys. For me, I've always thought that getting aroused on a first date (which would likely happen to me if I really liked the girl) would creep the girl out or at least create a very mutually embarrassing situation. So... what do you think about a little "excitement" in the very early stages of a relationship?