beak101

i'm leaning towards what you said nenez. My boyfriend lives in California, and i am able to have a job in california with the help of my boyfriend that will pay for my schooling and has much better benefits than anything i can get down where i live. And also, the cost of living is way higher than what i'm used to, so living with him, and us paying for only one apartment is definitely the way to go. because it makes no sense for me to have a 1000$ apartment and him to have one too. Living with him or marrying him will benefit us both very much and thats why i'm looking forward to it.

me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years, i'm 18 and he is 24. he has helped me through some very tough times i've had recently, and we know that we are definitely going to spend our lives together. I want to move in with him when i graduate in May, but my close family is actually against me just living with him and telling us that we should just marry. well, the reason i was going to just live with him for a while, is because i would like a nice wedding and there is no way for me afford that just yet. i know that i want to marry this guy and we're not really sure what to do, i mean, is there any cheaper ways to have a wedding? or would it be right to just go to the courthouse and get married, and then have another wedding or something like that later on?