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Yea, that's what I do, and my mother and girlfriend say that it is good, but I dont know why, I just think it sounds dumb... It just doesn't sound right. I mostly write free verse or somtimes short stories.

Yea, i think that u need a little bit of both. I mean yea girls with a great personality are nice, but I think that physical attraction plays a role in a guys mind.

Traits that I look for in a girl are, strong willed, NOT JEALOUS, funny (not immature tho), tease. And for looks I go for longer hair, just because I love to play with a girls hair, and thats pretty much it. I'm a hair kinda guy. But yea definatly can't be a jealous girl, because I have friends that are girls too, and as long as she can trust me with them, I feel like are bond is stronger. If you are jealous, it just makes guys want to be with another girl.

Hope it helps

I think you need to take a good look at yourself in the mirror, and tell yourself, "I am a caring individual, and I know that somone is out there for me." After that, I believe your self-image, will most likely improve. Then you need to just find out where you can meet people, and don't ever underestimate yourself. I may only be 17, but I hope I can help. All I know is that everytime I show someone a picture of my girlfriend, they are like, "How did you get her?" Because she is very beautiful and and fun to be with. Now how did I meet her? I met her because my dog got loose, and she brought her back. Now that sounds like a picture perfect match, but knowing what has happened to me, I think that as long as you are a caring individual, and you know that you are, then you can find somone you love.

As for showing your personality, if I were you I would change the subject, if you are talking about sombody else. Start to ask he about herself... when she says somthing interesting, tell her how you feel about that certain topic, and eventually your feelings will be spilling out, and so will hers.

Anyway, I may not be much help, but I hope you read it and actually try it.

I always get boner when I kiss someone I like, and I've never really been embarrassed, it just makes me want to press against her body, to show her that she is makin me feel that way. Never really thought that they would think its gross...

I guess I have never felt an attraction, not held together by phyique, but its not like she is ugly. She is VERY pretty, but it is like the physical attraction is less...which is really weird

Thanx for reply!

I really like it man, I wish I could express myself like you. All my poetry is stupid

Okay, there is this girl, I've known for like three weeks, and all I can do at night or in the shower is think about her. I don't even think about sex, I just think about being close to her, which is really odd for me, because normally when I daydream about a girl this much it is about sex. It's not like I do not want to have sex with her (believe me I do), but it is not the highlight of my thoughts. All I can think about is being with her, and getting close.

I think about her 24/7 and I always wonder if she thinks about me the same. Am I just so insecure, that I highly doubt that she would always be thinking about me.

Well, all I want to know:

1. Why don't I dream about her sexually

2. Do you think she thinks about me?

Thanx!!

Yea, I talked to my friend today. And he told me that he doesn't really like her anymore. But for some reason I do not believe him, because we were playin football and when she showed up, he kind of got quiet, and left soon after. I know that he is a friend, and he says he doesn't like her anymore, but for some reason I think he is just saying that. She talked to me today, saying that we don't have to go out, if I don't want to, but we can be "best friends with best benefits". I still don't think I should go out with her because I don't want him to be mad, but this girl is one of the coolest girls I have ever met. She is pretty, and funny, and just fun to talk to. I think that we can just be friends for now, and later maybe something more. Please send me some solutions. And thanx for those responses!

Okay, so my i recently move to Virginia, and made friends over the summer. Well about 2 weeks ago I met this girl. And I instantly knew I liked her. Until I heard one of my best friends talking about her. He said that he has liked her for 3 years now and he wants to hook up with her. So I talked to her about it and she said she liked me, but not him. The problem is, I dont want to hook up with her after just meeting her, when my friend has tried to hook up with her for 3 years now. I just don't know what to do! Please help!