confuseddude

We haven't had sex yet. Maybe we're blowing this out of proportion because we haven't even done anything oral yet.

It wasn't me that made an issue of it, she's worried that she'll never have one, and when we're being intimate, I know that's it's on her mind.

I'm 19 and I've been seeing my 18 year old girlfriend for 6 months now. We just recently started pleasuring each other with our hands when one night she revealed to me that she has never in her life been able to have an orgasm. This shocked me, and she doesn't want me constantly thinking about it and doesn't want it to be a big deal. But if we're going to keep getting more intimate, how am I not supposed to be bothered? How am I supposed to go on knowing that she isn't really having any fun? I try to give her support as best I can, I love her, but I really don't know what to do if this remains an ongoing problem. We love each other and the last thing we want is something to pull us apart.