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That's a good tip. If people do bother me, then I can get my guidance counselor to deal with them =) Never thought of that.

 

Recently, I got new classes and a guy who found out was in one of them and he told his friends about it, so they were smiling and staring at me with widened eyes and they were freaking me out like seriously. (One of the guys I have a crush on, lol.) The next day, one of them blew a kiss at me and I blushed. But I'm just going to keep being nice to them, and just smile.

Your school is soooooo weird. First you have that guy continually questioning your sexual orientation, and then this. Oh well, different schools handle things differently, but it so surprizing because it's like the exact opposite at my school.

So. My 3 questions are:

 

 

1) When/How did you come out. And if your not out, why wont you come out?

Because most Central America countries are way homophobic. And they are too square about sexuality, if you are masculine you are straight, if you are effeminate you are gay. Vice versa for girls. And really, having to explain what a bisexual is to 3/5 people and then being called indecesive, greedy or in denial is just not worth it.

2) How do you feel about "confused" people?

Most of the time, they hold the answer within themselves, after they explain their situation, it's obvious to everyone, except them. But only the person can decide their sexuality, and I'm in no place to start labeling people. You can label yourself.

3) Is it just my city or do all gay guys like to start 'drama' (as much as i hate that word) with all the other gay guys. Cuz ever since me and my boyfriend have been going out there was one guy who said he would break us up cuz he wanted me.. but then he realized i hated him and he said he'd break us up because he wanted my boyfriend.

I don't see were the word 'all' came from. I bolded the pronoun for you... You can't go around generalizing people based on one person and some stereotyping. Everyone is different and sexual orientation doesn't go hand in hand with anything.

Me and my boyfriend went from being probably the most wanted gay guys in our town to the most hated gay guys as soon as we started going out. I dont know but i think its because everyone else was jealous.

 

Respond pls.

By everyone? weird place. I don't know if they were jealous or whatever, but hey, you both are in a relationship and you are both happy, so, hell to them.

The whole he-is-cute deal was kinda misleading Well, if he is disruptive and intimidating, I'd say be careful, since those two qualities aren't exactly the best examples of stable emotions. But it's awesome that you are trying to meet gay/bi people

Don't make the mistake my friend did: She began a relationship with another girl, even though they were incompatible, just because she was the only other lesbian around.

You sound kinda... interested, I dunno. But you shouldn't base a relationship on just sexual orentation.

I remember I used to be picked on in gym class...But sometimes it all bordered on sexual harassment. I remember once this guy--in private--cornered me and showed me his penis. I was floored to say the least. He didn't do it in a teasing manner either...The look on his face was absolutely serious. I never told anyone about that...But now I thinking about it I wonder was he trying to make a pass at me.

Plus, some of them would say suggestive things to me and even blow kisses at me. Mind you, this was when I was trying not to be gay...

I would freak. Or have a nervous breakdown. Or both. I had something much, much, much lighter happen to me... this guy went around calling every other guy his boyfriend, he even made out with one or two of them... for a joke. Just one big joke. Anyway, he started to get like that with me, but I cutted all ties with him as soon as I could. He was kicked out next year.

I am comfortable with people knowing, it's just I am a nervous sort of person at first.

 

Well, me too, but I still didn't haven't taken that step... when people ask me, I just flat out lie, and that's it. I sorta admire you... I guess .

 

(Hmm.. he kinda outed you, didn't he?)

Pretty good, IMO. The only flaw is lack of members/activity, though. But it could be what you are looking for.

It sounds like you can't do anything now, it's up to him.

But really, consider the millions and millions of people there is in the world... don't you think you can trust at least one? Maybe not today, or tomorrow, but someday, maybe not right away, you will find someone you can trust.

Why do you have friends for? That is question every individual has a different answer for...

Well, just try to move on, you'll find a more reliable source of trust sometime.

You sure have a complicated story... but really, if this doesn't work out (sounds like it), you won't be alone forever... there has to be someone out there. Sure, he might not be your best friend, but you never know until you look.

Remember, you may FEEL like that, but you CAN find someone. (And this is such a moment for the song Who Knows... I wish I had my CD player)