İ feel like im tired like an old man about dating requirements
İ am 16 male who never had girlfriend, in highschool, i focus on my studies and myself, i have friend group but not a romantic interest so it sometimes makes me wonder and whenever i look at dating forums etc....
İ always see something like, you need to be alpha man or u need to be bad boy, u have to be mean against girls (we could even make a list about this) i did not even know what is redpill or blupill (whatever they are) is or u have to lose ur virginity bc being inexperinced is a total turnoff for women(it makes me things that maybe i should lose it to somebody stranger or smthg) and those thing makes me feel like i am not worthy of love or anything if i have a crush on somebody in future and bc of that i am obsessed about it
Why being normal and seeing girls as a normal is not enough?
Do i really have to do these things to date if i have a crush on somebody?
How exatcly should i act if i have a crush on somebody?