Lexismith

They were pictures from my social media

I’m not hoping anything.. like I said it could be anyone I’ve dated a lot of men. It’s weird that’s it’s never happened to me before until now and after my date.

You think it’s him ?

I’m really not sure who it is? I’ve dated a lot of men. Yet this has never happened until now.

I went on a date a couple days ago it went well I had a good time. He got me custom made flowers. Opened all the doors, we went on an activity then he took me to dinner. I say all this to say that, after my date at about midnight I get a fake account requesting to follow me on social media. They had no post and no followers or pictures. They started sending me photos of myself from my instagram page to me. Saying my name, calling me pretty, and saying they miss me. I'm kinda spoked but I find it weird that it happened after my date ?

Okay thanks guys.

Do you think he’s already completely over me?

I’ve been talking to men and my options and have dates lined up… yet I still think about him ? Will this go away soon

Thank you I needed to hear this. That’s why I said I feel played because ultimately I was. I should have took it as a clue him never being in a relationship and dating girls months at a time we no commitment was a red flag. Also the fact he’s never been in love or even close to it. I’m not trying to make it work, I haven’t contacted him in a week and don’t ever plan on doing it.

Do you think he’ll see this ?

But you said he wasn’t into me ..

I didn’t send him a paragraph. I texted him asking him if we were done. He didn’t respond, Then that’s when I let it go and removed him from social media. Three days later he sends me that text. It’s not so much that I want him back cause I don’t. Maybe for my ego because it’s bruised considering the fact that I’ve told him several times we’re not good together and I wanted to end things with him. He said things like “why are you so quick to throw away the towel, you’ve been over this for while, you been wanting to end things” etc. which made me think and I stayed for him to do a complete 180.

It’s been a week so it still kinda of bothers me but I know I’ll get over it.

What do you mean I haven’t begged him for closure. I haven’t contacted this man in a whole week. ?

Do y’all agree with this ^^^???

You’re absolutely right .

He started changing certain things but it wasn’t enough and I should have just left after that.

I’m blaming myself because I was stupid to stay. The crazy thing is he knew he was being nonchalant. This what he said when I wanted to end it with the nonchalant stuff. Hey I just wanted to let you know that I’m sorry for how I made you feel yesterday. The nonchalant stuff isn’t cool and I would feel a way if you did it to me, I’m willing to admit it and going to work on it. I know I can also be stubborn at times not realizing how it’s really making you feel, I want to make you feel wanted and know it’s coming from a good place. You really are a sweet, caring person and deserve to be treated like so, I really do like you and think about you 24/7 & see a future with you. I don’t like when you’re mad or upset with me it bothers me more than you know, this is a work in progress I’m going to do what it takes to make you not feel like that anymore. Don’t give up on me

Yes I was. I honestly I believe I was.

Ur right now you see why I feel stupid I feel like I was played? The fact that I knew this and I tried to end it twice makes me even more upset at myself

I’ve come to the conclusion that hr probably just wasn’t interested. Which makes me feel less bad about those games I played.

Boom spot on. Yet he claimed this was the deepest he’s been with a woman?? He would say “ I do have deep feelings for you I was going to make you my girlfriend, I’ve never made a girl my girlfriend so I was serious about you”. Then I reminded him that he’s dated women sometimes 7 months at a time so how could those women you dated for that long be surface level ? Yet we’ve only been dating for three months and this is deep for you?

It was different I’ve never dated a nonchalant man so it kinda made me want to figure him out

It wasn’t just the compliments. He was nonchalant just in general all the time. Then when I would kinda pull away due to that, he would flip and stop being nonchalant??? I’m not sure if it was an act or not.

I don’t get it ?