Lexismith

There is… yet why would I ask him ? I was just wondering why do you guys think he would do that.

No I’m just curious why he did it ?

He ended up following me on social media and viewing my stories

Oh yes I’m done for sure.

Update I met up with him. We got food and talked he was staring at me deeply. We started to to talk about things when he started talking he started to shake ? Which I thought was strange? Anyways I asked him what his intentions were sense he said he wanted to meet up and tell me. He said to possibly get back in a relationship? we ended up leaving and spent more time together. We ended up making out a couple times. He still had me saved in his contacts with a heart next to it. I then asked him what he wanted from me and he switched up and said for “us to be cool, and he wanted nothing from me” . He then asked me what my intentions were I said “for us to be friends”. He then kept asking me if I was sure and if that’s all I want from him? He then proceeded to ask me about my dates and if I kissed the men. I said once but It wasn’t anything serious. I asked him if he cared and he proceeded to say “nope I don’t care your single you can do what you want”. we spent a total of 7 hours together and his intentions were still “idk” he basically said yes but no?? The whole situation was confusing and pointless tbh. Yet I’m happy I went because it confirmed that I was over him. since the meetup it’s been silent from his end.

He asked me if I wanted to meet I said sure. He asked me when I worked and never texted back it’s been two days lol so I’m not meeting him even if he texts me back. I’m content and tired of his games. So even if he does decide to text me back there won’t be any more communication from my end.

You’re saying he basically wants sex ?

No I’m not. Why would I meet up with someone who doesn’t know what their intentions are via me ? Not only that he’ll text me I’ll text him back then it will take him days to reply. He asked me what my schedule looked like to meet up with me and I replied and he still has t said anything. I’ve washed my hands with this whole pointless waste of time situation. I’m over it. He’s playing games.

He said he didn’t know what his intentions were and he would rather discuss it in person. Makes no sense you can tell me via phone

This how the end of the texts went. me- what was the point in you asking me that question (I was talking about the work situation) Him- I already told you. Not a big deal me- alright (rolling eye emoji) Him - don’t roll your eyes at me Me- shut up I’m tired of your little games lol if your not on anything, then we can stop this back and forth communication today. Him- I’m not playing any games, but my bad I’ll leave you alone me- then what are you doing ? Him- as far as what? I’m not playing any games that’s not the case. Me- then what are your intentions… crickets …… I’m not sure maybe he didn’t reply because he has no intentions…

We were already in contact the day before he asked me about the work situation. the break up was mutual. But it was stupid and petty.

He didn’t just come out there rip and say he had feelings for me and that he missed me. he asked me if I thought of him because he thinks about me randomly. Then I asked him if he still had feelings for me and if he missed me and he said yes.

I’m not. If he’s not why not just respond and tell me what they are ?

I do!! I was just wondering why that question made him stop responding.

Why do you think he never responded to that question?

Yup I told him we can stop contact over this back and forth game playing if he’s not on anything. He responded saying “he’s not playing games but he won’t bother me anymore”. I asked him what his intentions were and he never responded.

Exactly I don’t get what the purpose of texting me in the first place was

I asked him what the purpose was of him asking me? he said “I told your already, it’s not a big deal”

So my ex texted me last night asking if I work the next day and if I did what was my schedule like ?I guess his whole purpose was he didn’t want to see me while I was at work, so he wanted to know my schedule today so he could avoid me ? The place that I work at has another location so why not just go there? Why do you take the time out of your day to ask me that silly question? Just don’t shop at my store period. two weeks before this he said he still had feelings for me and that he missed me .

They all do what ?

Update I looked at his social media and viewed his story on accident. He ended up reaching out right after that. He asked me if I think about him because he thinks about me randomly, said he misses me and still has feelings for me. I told him I do to but he doesn’t believe me he said “he thought I wouldn’t. He also said he he still has the photos of us in his phone

Exactly because lots of exes go to each other’s pages. Yeah why did you feel the reason to break no contact with her and ask her why she went to your page?

To clarify he said “lurking “? Not stalking The ex responded saying “um no” he then replied saying “okay 😏” with that smile face

Nooooooo this has nothing to do with me

So my friend has been dating/talking to this guy for some weeks. Anyways he previously was dating a girl for 3 months it was short and they ended things and he claimed they haven’t been in contact for a month. Anyways I guess the ex was snooping on his social media. He found out and texted her asking her “stalking” ? She’s confused because even if your ex was looking at your page why did you have to reach out and ask??? she just doesn’t want to be in a situation where things are messy… what do you guys think ?