Rosestar5000

I wasn’t airing him out. I post songs that I like on my Snapchat all the time without any meaning behind them, so I don’t know why he took that particular one personally. If anything, he’s aired me out before when I stopped talking to him last year, and he ended up making several negative TikTok videos that I know for a fact are 100% about me, and they’re still up a year later. I don’t think he knows that I know his TikTok profile, though.

Yeah, I’m definitely learning to trust my instincts and not ignore the first red flag. I hadn't thought about cleaning up my social media and resetting privacy settings, but it definitely makes sense.

Yeah, I honestly knew better. I will be focusing on myself for a while.

Will definitely consider these suggestions going forward. Thank you for the advice.

I honestly did. And it’s easier said than done, especially when they’ve come back several times and made me feel a way no one else ever has.

I understand the importance of realistic expectations and not getting caught up in a perfect boyfriend fantasy, but it’s hard to do that when all I come across are guys who fake personalities and act perfect in the beginning just to get what they want, and they usually know it ends up making a girl attached to them to the point where the girl ends up overlooking all of their red flags. I honestly do spend a lot of time on social media, and I’ve been trying to get away from it, but I just get bored without it.

When we did see each other, he gave off the perfect boyfriend vibes; his personality was exactly like mine; he told me everything I wanted to hear; and I thought we were connecting well. His excuses for not seeing me was that he was depressed and was going through a lot, so I still tried to see the potential in him.

I mean, there wasn't any meaning behind it from my perspective. I only posted the song because I liked it. I didn’t think he would take that post seriously, and plus, we broke up almost 3 months ago, so it could’ve been about someone else for all he knows.

I'm 20; he's 22. We met in April 2022, but I ended things in July 2022 as I felt that it wasn't going anywhere. He texted me in January this year, wanting to restart, but the same issues persisted: him not keeping his word, having multiple excuses for not seeing me, and him not getting me anything for Valentine's Day, which led to me ending communication with him in April this year. Months later, he returned in August, and I started pressing him for better treatment. He broke up with me in October, and he suggested that I need someone who loves me more than I love them, someone who’s willing to take me on dates and willing to see me without me having to ask. We remained friends on social media until I posted that song and got blocked unexpectedly. I never really had the strength to block him, and I wanted to remain friends, but it seems unlikely now.

I posted this song on my Snapchat called “Movin On," along with its lyrics related to moving on from an ex. My ex saw this snap and blocked me after viewing it and listening to it. He had previously watched every snap I posted for months, even after we broke up. He even reached out to me to apologize three weeks ago, so I’m confused as to why he blocked me after viewing that particular snap. I didn’t even post it with any specific message behind it; I just posted it because I liked the song. Any advice on why he blocked me?