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It's been all of the things. Sometimes it's just texting. Sometimes I'm helping her at her house. Sometimes it's just dinner, and sometimes, other stuff. This has been going on for two years. I think I'm finally hitting a breaking point, but I'm terrified to cut it off. She wants to try to be "in each other's lives", and we have been trying to figure this out, but I'm not sure it's possible so soon. I'm saying, "so soon", because it's like it never really ended. Just with some brief pauses.

Because we're not "friends". It's been more than that when the opportunity comes up. I feel the NC rule may be what I'm thinking I know the answer to 😞

There were just differences. In things that made us happy, motivations, etc. I feel you're right. Limbo is an appropriate word to describe this and it's very uncomfortable. Regarding a security blanket, I'm personally having a very hard time letting go. With her, I'm not sure what it is 😞

I'm going to try to make this short, but I'm a mess. In May of 2022, my ex and I split. It was amicable, but super tough because there wasn't a villain. We got along, but just not right for each other. I really wanted to try, but also had my reservation. Fast forward two years, we've both had boyfriends/girlfriends and have split up. All in between, we hung out, talked, texted, the whole nine yards, so it never felt, but only for a bit, like we were actually broken up. Her and I go back and forth of how we can, "be in each other's lives". I still get, "I love you", and "I'm thinking of you" texts. She's not the only one at fault, I do it too when I get in my feelings. The time has come where she told me she met someone, but it's nothing yet, or doesn't think that it will be. Well, expectedly, my anxiety is going off the charts and would love some advice of what I can do. Is it possible to keep her in my life and be supportive? The problem is, I still love her. It appears she still loves me, unless it's said in different context. I just don't know what to do and I'm tired of crawling out of my skin. Help please!