CherrieTart

Yeah, I asked him because I wanted to know what he was saying. I never told the new guy I wanted to be friends with benefits. We matched on a dating app a year ago. And he had been trying to get me to date him. And I finally decided to do so as he had been telling me he wanted a relationship.

I'm not saying I want to be in a romantic relationship with the FWB. I'm just used use to him and his company as I said he's like family to me. Yeah, I did feel uncomfortable but I don't know why I mean I know he wants to sleep with me. But I guess maybe his actions make me feel uneasy.

Yes, I know I can date but I'm asking if he's saying he doesn't want to see me again. And as for the new guy, he's been telling me all along that he wants to be in a relationship with me. He never said he only wanted sex. I get that he can be aroused but does that excuse his behavior?

I've been friends with benefits with a guy for a year he's busy working a lot now. So, we don't get to see each other as much as we used to. Sometimes we go months without seeing each other. I saw him yesterday and we talked. He told me not to limit myself and that it was okay for me to date. Because I deserve to be happy and if dating other people makes me happy then it's ok (I told him I was dating someone). He said I deserve to be happy. And to be involved with someone who can give me more of their time etc. I get what he's saying but I told him that it wasn't an issue for me. And that I like spending time with him because I feel safe. I almost broke down telling him how I've always been treated. And not being comfortable with other people. I told him I was verbally abused. And he said he was both verbally and physically. I asked him if he was saying that he didn't want to see me again and he said no that's not what he was saying. Also Should I stop seeing this new guy? I went out on a date with a guy last week the date was nice. But he was horny the entire time. And he kept touching himself (trying to hide that he was aroused). After the first date, he told me he liked my personality. And that he thought I was attractive and cool. I went on a second date with him and I noticed he was looking down at my breasts. He told me we could go back to my car and talk. I already knew he wanted to make out in the car. Because he had mentioned it after the first date. So when he went to the bathroom I left the restaurant. He texted me asking if everything was ok. I lied and said my mother had an emergency. He's been saying he wants a relationship and had been trying to get me to go out with him for an entire year. He has never said that he ONLY wants sex. Should I go out with him again?