Mya143

I understand. And he does seem very passive with her because he doesn’t like to make her upset. They argue sometimes because he even feels the thing she does is ridiculous as well. And his curfew is 10:00 on the dot on weekends.

He does live at home and works full time and is sometimes off on weekends. He pays her 200 every paycheck that he gets so twice a month. I have spent 1 on 1 with her and decided to ask for myself because i just felt that this whole “he can’t spend the night while he lives under my roof” thing is ridiculous. We spend 1 on 1 time together and she even said that i can come to her house when she isn’t there so im not seeing what the problem actually is.

We both live at home and have been dating a year now. He hasn’t met any of my family because his mom wouldn’t let him over at first. He informed me that they weren’t doing anything for Christmas so he doesn’t see why it’s a big deal.

Let me clarify I (19f) love my boyfriend(19m). I really do and i have the best time with him always. It’s just his mom…she is so overbearing and overall a drag that it just makes me not want to deal with it all together. It started off as him not being able to go out for long periods of time,we were 18 then, then he can’t touch me in the house because it’s disrespectful. That stuff i understand and i would never want to disrespect her house like that. Then she doesn’t understand why he wants to hang out with me for a full day when he is finally off work, he has every other weekend off and he wants to spend the Saturday with me, and wants him to come home by a certain time..okay i guess. I’m not cool with that but i have no say so. Now a year later and I’ve met a good chunk of his family and he feels it’s time to meet mine. I don’t have a prob with that so i said he could come out of town with us for Christmas. He asked her and she said no because she isn’t comfortable with us spending the night together. If this makes it sound any better he is a bout to be 20 in December. I’ll take any advice about how i should go about this relationship because i do want to stay with him but i actually want to do stuff with him without restrictions or time frames. I will understand if im being childish and not respecting her and i will take any criticism that comes with it but i just feel like i have no freedom and i dont like that.