I want advice on how to react when my girlfriend says mean things or is rude to me. The cat just sort of jumped on her and hurt her (obviously unintentionally) and she sort of kicked her off the bed. It really upset me and I told her she was being violent with the cat and she got really defensive and locked me out of the bedroom. I have a key so I came back in and she was still really mean. We are supposed to go out with some friends tonight and I told her I might not go. She said, " fine, nobody needs you anyway." I feel really hurt and she is totally ignoring me. What should I say to her?
