On the contrary, it can be controlled. If you don't let someone know how they are treating you or talking to you in inappropriate then they will continue to do it. Those people get pulled over by the cops I promise you they will not call them sweetie or honey. It'll be year sir or no sir. Or yes ma'am or no ma'am. Go to church and I'm sure they do not call their pastor by name. It's reverend, pastor, priest, rabi, or bishop. They go to the doctor and I assure they it'll be Dr, this or Dr. that. Go to court and call the judge by his or her name instead of your honor and see what happens. Yes, these people have titles but unless you direct someone on how to address you then they will think it's perfectly fine to address you however they want to.