P4nther

What was even the point of this post?

No, I'm not convincing myself that I'm undesirable. I'm simply affirming the collective opinion of women everywhere. Because if women found me attractive, I would've had a girlfriend by now, or at least a date or a slither of interest. It's not rocket science. Also, unless people are mind readers, how am I "projecting my beliefs"? Sounds like a bunch of mumbo jumbo to me.

lmao I like how you flipped this and somehow made ME the shallow one, despite women overlooking me based purely on looks.

Trust me, there isn't a "lid" for this "pot". I am completely invisible and unwanted by women. There's nothing I can do to attract a partner, except for maybe winning the lottery. Positive mindset, negative mindset, it makes no difference. There are dozens of men who are selfish, chauvinistic, narcissistic... etc. who have gfs and wives, so mindset clearly makes no odds. I am literally cursed to be foreveralone. I wish my mother had a miscarriage with me.

You might think I'm engaging in hyperbole, but there is effectively no difference between myself and the most repellent guy you can imagine. This is despite the fact that I have dedicated years to improving myself and maximizing my appearance. I've had zero female interest. And I mean ZERO. No interest. No dates. Nothing. Meanwhile, there are all manner of men falling into relationships with the bare minimum of effort. I've come to the conclusion that I was never meant to exist. My fate was sealed before I even left the womb. What is the point existing when you are a genetic deadend who's collectively overlooked by women?

I wondered what he meant by that. I thought calling me "lamb" was just being patronizing. Either way, that isn't me.

It's nothing to do with my "approach". Women are either attracted to you or they're not.

Every time a woman overlooks me, she is, in essence, rejecting me. People are not shy when they're interested in someone. I've seen it happen many times with guys other than myself. And no, stating it over and over doesn't make it a fact. Being single all my life and never having any women interested in me makes it a fact.

Okayyyy... but how exactly am I meant to do that when women are not interested in me? Where is the happiness and hope coming from? It's like the old "experience paradox" where a person cannot get a job because they have no work history, but how can they obtain experience when no one gives them a chance?

I don't really understand what you mean by "give the energy"? I think it's just hopeless. Some men have "it" and others (like me) do not. I wish I could come to terms with that, but in all honesty, I'm sure it will end with me tapping out rather than suffer this bitter loneliness any longer than I have to.

I agree with you in principle, but women never even give me a chance, so they would never know that I'm envious and spiteful to begin with. And if your answer to that is "people can sense these things" then this just opens a whole new can of worms, because there are extremely dangerous, violent men who are successful with women.

I'm only reduced to being passive because women do not find me attractive.

Ah yes, of course. When a man is struggling with loneliness and isolation, then it's okay to peddle sexist terms and play the responsibility card.

No, it's not. Every single day I step outside, I am submitting myself for "publication".

Women aren't interested in me. If they were, then one way or another, I would've had a girlfriend by now. It really is that simple. As for how women signal interest, this might be of interest to you: https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/first-blush/201710/the-many-subtle-ways-women-signal-romantic-interest