For context I am 18 and male. Four years ago when I was 14, my mother was going to visit her friend who lived in the countryside for a few days and she took me with her. While we were walking over to her friend's house, I slipped and fell in the mud. When we arrived at the house, my mother asked her friend if I could have a bath and have my clothes washed and dried. My mother's friend said that her daughters were going to be having a bath in an hour and that I could join them. I refused her offer but my mother told her friend that I would take the bath. My mother made me put all of my clothes including my underwear into the laundry bin and she made me go into the bathroom. A few minutes after this, her friend's two 12-year-old daughters came into the bathroom in swimsuits and we had to have a bath. Should I still hate my mother and hold this against her? My friend said that I am making this out to be a bigger deal than it is.