Massey

1 hour ago, SooSad33 said:

So, isn't your statement unrealistic?  I'd say in time, sure, you can come to see you DO trust them. ( unless, for reason's they can't eg. they've got trust issue's due to their own experiences).

But, if trust is never present, then there's a real problem.. imo  😕 .

Thank you. 

3 hours ago, Seraphim said:

In what context or relationship? 

Sorry, I should have been more clear. It's a 2 year relationship. 

A hypothetical situation came up and that was their reply. Nothing has actually happened to make me concerned that they are doing anything. 

They are basically saying that if there is no trust in a relationship (which for us has been built over the course of 2 years) then people shouldn't be in that relationship.... You either trust your partner or you don't. Assuming there are no red flags of course. 

Hi everyone.

I love to get your feedback on the statement: You either trust me or you don't.

For some reason, it rubs me the wrong way and I'm not sure why. Having said that, I have spoken to a couple of  people that feel the same way as the statement. 

What is your take on the statement?