My boyfriend (29) and I (28) have been together for 6 yrs, 7 in June.
Over the last 2 yrs I felt my interest to settle down with him grow and so I have been hinting at finding a place together, starting conversations on living together and eventually getting married.
When we have such discussions we both seem to want the same things. He emphasizes I am a big part of his life & cannot imagine his future without me.
However, when it comes to actually getting serious about purchasing property together, he backs out. He has this particular interest in purchasing a specific property which he has always wanted since he was younger and is very adamant to work for it before committing to any other with me.
I understand it has now become common practise for individuals to buy their own property (I myself have come across a few which id love to buy on my own) but feels unnatural considering how long we have been together. I understand one is free to do whatever makes them happy and to have support from partner but aren't we meant to be thinking of our future together at this stage?
All our friends are getting married and living their life while we are stuck because of this issue. He has joined me with viewing of other property but only out of interest or support..he is not really keen to purchasing any other if not the one/location he has put his eyes on.
Any thoughts / advice on this? How I can perhaps help him understand. I really don't wish to be held back.