So really quick. My gf for eight years and mother to 3 of my children had an affair with a man who was my friend, but I stopped talking to him due to his disrespect. I could see how he was always trying to get with my girl. But permanently hide his alternative motive, a real covert narcissist to the letter. So I did express the concern throughout the year to g/f. And she said they were only friends, and she just wanted to be able to have friends, making me feel like I was controlling because I asked her not to hang out with guys who were not supportive of our relationship. For background, we knew this guy for about five years. I met him right before his g/f overdosed, and I was there for him, making sure he was ok and not alone and keeping the lead from his head. We lived with him for three years, moved away for a year, then moved back to the house across the street after one year of voicing my concern and six months of fighting because I was no longer comfortable with their friendship. She cheated on me with him on Xmas in the woods and again, but this time they just made out two days before my birthday. With all that being said, I had accused her that she was having an emotional affair before she cheated. She claimed they were only friends and only saw him as a friend until they ***ed. Is that possible? Now keep in mind she left me for him, but he didn't want her, etc., but if we take it as truth, how, if at all, is possible, or what do you guys think is happening here besides lying
