I just found out my husband has been having lunch once a month for the last 3 years with a woman that is basically in the same area of work that he is in but he does not "do business" with her company.He says nothing is going on and that she keeps him up to date on what is going on in the industry.I'm guessing that she must want his company to buy from hers but after 3 yrs. and he still isn't buying from her it seems that there would no longer be the need for these regular lunch dates.I knew nothing about this all this time which also makes me feel a little betrayed.Is this cheating and should I believe him that nothing was going on?The lunch dates were marked on his work calendar but her name wasn't written in,just the company name and I noticed on all the other calendar lunch dates when they were male the person's name along with the company name was on the calendar except for hers.This,of course made me wonder also.It just seems like if he didn't have anything to hide I would've known about it and her name would have been on the calendar just like anybody else.Opinions on this please Thanks!!
