ok so some backstory: i have a neighbor that lives in my apartment building, we used to be BEST friends. When she didn't have her license i drove her around, took care of her kid. Bought her things when she didn't have money. We hangout every day and our kids were friends that is until one day she decided to sleep with my husband. This post is not about the infidelity's and my husband and i have worked through it and dealt with our issues separately from her however she decided that I WAS A HORRIBLE FRIEND and she got a restraining order on me... ok fine because i pretty much wanted nothing to do with her after she betrayed me. She didn't even say sorry or act like she cared or even want to talk about it and work through it so i just gave up and left her alone.
Its been about 3 years since that happened and i haven't talked to her since and i have left her alone. We have fires in the backyard on the weekends when the weather is nice. most of the people from the building come out and have some drinks and listen to music while we all hangout together but of course my miserable neighbor calls the landlord and complains that we are too loud on a Friday night at 9 pm. The landlord calls us and says we have to fill in the fire pit and we are not allowed to grill outside or have any events that involve music or everyone crowding.
I was so upset, everyone loves hanging out and we have an amazing yard that we all enjoy EXCEPT FOR HER.
i have had enough of her, she makes me sick. i want REVENGE.
I don't want to hurt her, i don't want anything bad to happen i just want to inconvenience her life and make things hard for her. I know revenge is not the high road and i don't care i hate her and i want her to be miserable. I usually just spit on her car door handle because i know she has to touch it but this was THE LAST STRAW. Now she has taken our yard away and everyone is upset!
i want to know what i can do to make her miserable, nothing intense or harmful just gross/inconvenient stuff. Please help!