I'm 35 and wondering why did I even sign up for online dating.. I'm miserable. I met this guy on Hinge and we instantly hit it off. A dinner date turned into an arcade game scene and turned to us having a ball and really connecting. He had just moved to my city and was planning on moving to Europe by the end of this year. So I told him from the get-go that I'm not looking for something casual. Right from the first date, things had been awesome and he even wanted to kiss me on the first date itself and from the second date onwards, we've been holding hands and being romantic - we cooked together several times, went for a movie together, went bowling, hiking and I even jammed to music with his close friends. Throughout, he's been super attentive and caring and has remembered tiny details of our conversations. He used to make plans with me very often. Sometimes even right after the day we met. After a month in, our hangouts usually consisted of hanging out at his place with his dog, taking his dog for a walk, cycling around and cooking and making music. We hardly went to any restaurants or any place outside of his home, but the time spent with him has always been wholesome. I've been seeing him regularly since June. In August, he began preparing to leave for Europe and we got emotional and hung out at a restaurant and later went to his place and got frisky. We both thought it'd be the last time we'd see each other. I asked him then that do I have to start seeing other people and he said I guess so.
But he didn't turn up for his Visa appointment and turns out he's here for several months more. Which means we probably have even more time together now! We had a beautiful cuddling session last month and he even said he wants to sleep with me, but I denied because if he has to leave, things will get complicated. Also, we haven't labelled this relationship...I've been too afraid to have the talk and ruin things and even he has just gone with the flow, but he always behaves like we are in a relationship. We've met a few times after this but I feel like he's losing interest now. He's not actively making any plans and just like that, 5 months have passed with this guy, without knowing where this is headed. I feel I'm too attached to him now and not hearing from him for days at length is driving me crazy. I know to the reader this may sound petty and I may b sounding like a fool, but I don't now what to do. last week he couldn't meet because he had to go for dinner with someone and I'm feeling so insecure.
Also, right from the beginning, he's been chatting from his Whatsapp business account. I'm wondering if it was red flag I just accepted? Surely I should have insisted for his personal number? This has fizzled out. Should I try harder, or just accept and move on?