Jane8365

We are good, thank you. Yes. I’m staying at my sister’s place. It is sort of complicated with the pregnancy, but not living together.

We are separated now

I read that strangulation victims were 750% more likely to be murdered. Idk if it’s true but he did it pretty hard so reading that freaked me out.

If he does get violent again I really don’t think it would be so soon after. BIL has a truck and I have to get the baby stuff. It will be fine until he realizes I’m gone or finds out. But yeah I have to get the baby stuff. That is the soonest he could take off.

Yeah everything has been fine. BIL took off work next Wednesday to help get mine and babies stuff. Haven’t talked to bf about anything. Terrified. We will see what his reaction is when I leave and go from there. Thanks everyone

I’m not going to be able to leave if he is here.

Yeah it is terrible. Really stressful. Doesn’t want to talk to me at all but doesn’t want/doesn’t let me leave either. I don’t get it. Really confusing.

I’m 17 weeks live in GA. Heard the heartbeat, saw his face so that’s just not something I’m going to do especially at this stage.

What? Why? It’s not that easy

Definitely don’t want to abort especially at this stage. So yeah I’ll talk to sister Monday, make a plan to go back home. I’m sure her husband will help. And will take pictures.

Sister and I are going to go to lunch Monday when he is at work and I’m sure she will help me figure it out and get my stuff. Thanks everyone. Yeah I don’t want to live like this and don’t want anything to happen with the pregnancy especially.

Do people actually do this?

Thank you guys

By fine I just mean we aren’t fighting and pretending nothing happened. I have been silently freaked out. I of course don’t want anything to happen to my child. I am completely financially dependent on him. I have never been pregnant before but I’m guessing I could work 2-3 more months? I didn’t want to tell anyone until I figured out what to do. I’m sure I can go back home. I’m scared of everyone freaking out and making the situation worse. I can try to talk to my sister first before everyone else and go from there. I don’t think she will call him or tell anyone. I think I’m still in shock, didn’t think something like this would happen in my relationship with him.

Boyfriend andI have been together 1.5 years. In the grand scheme of things relationship has been good and we love each other. A few months ago I found out I was pregnant. I stopped the pill to get a nexplanon implant and had a really bad reaction to it. Had it removed and was going to get a non hormonal iud a few weeks later. We used condoms so I don’t really know how it happened. He was really excited. I was terrified and freaked out, still am. I started staying with him most nights almost immediately after we started dating. After we found out about the pregnancy I officially moved in, we got engaged, and I quit my job to go back to school. Like I said overall everything has been great. He goes through these phases every few months where he is in a terrible mood. He will start a fight with me, we will get into in pretty bad and won’t talk for 2-4 days. Then he will apologize and we make up. So last weekend he was hanging out with his friends came home at like 2am. He woke me up coming in I just went to see what was going on. He immediately thought I was being a *** and trying to start a fight (really wasn’t) things got heated and he straight up choked me and hit my head against the wall a couple of times. I have some bruises on my arms. We made up everything is fine but internally I am freaking out and don’t know what to do. I am pregnant with his child, terrified, and don’t think I can do this without him. Never happened before. Don’t know if it will happen again. Never thought it would. Me being pregnant really complicates things. I’m not sure what I realistically should do. If I do have to leave he isn’t just going to accept that especially with me being pregnant. Any advice you could offer would be very helpful. I haven’t told anyone obviously.