Elizabeth727373

I dont really have some high level experience on this topic but like ,i can smell my bfs pre-cum odor really intensely even over his pants. I wanna go down on him but the smell makes me uneasy. Its like the fluid, it doesnt smell bad, it just smells different , like some type of saliva (when havent done anything yet) and skin, cant really descibe. I know its the fluid because when he is not hard i cant detect a smell. He hasnt cut his excess skin ? does that play a significant role? Is this normal? Bc my gfs say that it usually doesnt smell. The taste is okay, kinda salty but the odor aaaa i cant tolerate it. I mean he is clean and takes care of him self. However even after intercourse i can smell it around the room its bizzare xD

We do spend a good amount of time together, but besides the casual talk and the jokes there is nothing more

Oh sorry for the english im in the spectrum. Yeah, we've met , we are actually neibhors, both speaking the same language. Im 21 hes 24. By saying normie im reffering to the more "mainstream" activities he is into (there is nothing wrong with that ) , it is just the fact that my interests are a big part of my life and therefore extremely important to me.

Am i exaggerating? I dont see to have a common ground with my bf. We ve been together for some weeks. Im more of a nerd like i play yugioh, dnd , im really into anime, always updated on new stuff , basically really into anime culture , im also into philosophy, and truck . I also am a self hired artist, i do really love art with passion. My bf from the other hand...i feel like...he doesnt have much interests...or idk... i communicated that to him , i said that in order to feel closer i need to at least be kinda intrested in what im intrested. I tried to see if it worked the other way round. He said he likes animals, walks , and a few movies...that aint that good...objectively. and that was it. ik i might be way too critical...but he doesnt have a passion, and he doesnt seem to be really fond of something ...not even football? Which id love , since my heart leaps with joy to the sound of anything that requires movement. I also cant share memes or use english slang bc he undrestands none of it. I once said "lmao" to him and asked for a full explanation...like bruh...also doesnt help with birthday gifts, since im used to buying presents based on someones interests. Like you are a make up enthusiast??? Heres a bunch of professional brushes. You like anime?? Heres an action figure . I really like when people cant stop talking about their favorite stuff ....and i cant share something that im really excited about with my bf bc he wont get it...hes kinda like a "normie" but not in an offensive way .

This helped me so much and it made me feel so much better. Thank u .

Hello, im writting this while in tears. I dont really know who i should take advice from. Im 21 never been with a guy as a late bloomer. Had a relationship with a guy for 3 weeks. After our first date , he was really clingy , we had some good chemistry to be honest, but i wasnt feeling it . He would tell me how "skinny " i was how "cute "and" petite" how small my hands were and stuff like that. He was the type of guy who would spam me if i was online and didnt answer right away or call me. I was fed up to be honest and i wrote a paragraph saying that he is a nice guy but not a good match for me. Then he proceeded to write a novel of how i made him feel , complimenting everything about me, and sms me also telling me that he have never cried more for a woman he didnt know that well before. He pleaded to give him a chance and so i did. Bc i really thought i was unfair towards him. He was aware of my innocense . He was always so insecure about me talking to guy friends tho, while saying im his other half to his friends and he'll do anything for me , bc" im so different from the girls he have dated "etc. He also mentioned how he is in fear of losing me and being with someone else while in military. Note we didnt know each other 4 weeks ago . It was the type of guy who did what ever i asked even tho i wasnt really okay with that, he would pay in each date and he would bring me flowers or sweets, or he would tell me how much he cares and supports me or how he would love to help me study for uni.He was 25. And like 3 days ago he invited me to meet his mom i turned down that offer. He also asked in random times what i think about kids or marriage??? Plus today out of the blue also asked " if i had someone trying to attract me romantically on facebook??." Anyway after our casual date , i was not feeling well due to some severe issues that take place at home and had influenced my mood. He could tell i was feeling *** and he proceeded to ask me whats going on and talk about it. This dude was really sweet with me and made me feel heard. He suggested we should go at his place to chill since i was feeling really fatigue and all i wanted was to rest. He initate cuddles , which i really needed and after a while of me laying peacefully on his chest, he couldnt stop talking about how hard he was, and i kept saying that im feeling ***. He started touching me while i said "no" repeatedly, but to be honest, not in an angry way since i didnt had enough energyr. He kept telling me to touch him even tho my eyes were super watery due to stress. I did. After that he proceeded to shove it to my face while i was trying to tie my shoes . My body was coil , something that neither me nor him notice. My arms were subconsiously covering my chest. I was so scared !!!!! And felt so helpless my body was telling me that !! He probably thought that me being this way was due to the fact im shy and timid at times and definetely thought it was cute. I came back home crying , i washed my body 200 times with the sponge to the point i have scratches on my skin. How do i distance my self ??? He send me " are you home babe" and hes all sweet and stuff. If a just block him he would call me unstoppably or write me on sms paragraphs again pleading me and making me feel guilty. Because he is so "empathetic" as he always says.