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Thank you so much <33

Yes, correct. We'd msg each other but then delete the msg and get notified on it. Like I said, it's in the past. Edit to add: My hope was we would re-kindle our relationship. I'd go to his location and not so scared to open my heart.

Thank you. You're right, onto better things.

As mentioned in my post, when I saw the wedding on IG. I messaged him and thought it was really low of him to not even let me know he was seeing someone. Especially since he and I had been speaking everyday for 3 years. I wasn't creating fantasies, we had a genuine relationship and I never got that in person with the guys here. That's when he messaged me and told me, I cut ties with him and that was never what he wanted. It is what it is, he's blocked and I'm moving on. Thank you for replying.

Ugh, thank you so much. As I told the other commenter.. he reached out today. He said I was the one who chose to cut ties with him and leave him. He reconnected with his EX (turns out) one month later. Oh, and he also said he is getting older and needed to make a family and not wait around for me to decide what I want. Sounds like he settled, but I wish him well I guess.... 🙁

Thank you! He reached out to me today. We are not happy with each other. He said I was the one who chose to cut ties with him last summer, not him. He also told me this woman is his ex (whom he told me about). Never thought she was a threat but clearly they always had a connection. He wished me well and hopes I meet someone who will love me like I want. Don't know how to feel about all that. He also said, he is getting older and needed to make a family and was not going to wait around for me to decide what I want.

I will do that. Thank you.

You are right. It just hurts. He told me today that it actually is his ex that he married. So that's awesome.

Well... he just reached out to me today. Turns out he started seeing his ex a month after our fight. -- I have not played as much as before but still love to game regardless. Thank you for the reply!

Taking a break from men for a long time but you are right.

To mourn the loss sucks.. but life must go on. Thank you!

This just clicked for me. It makes sense entirely. Thank you so much!

Okay, you are right. I will say... when we did meet there was no chemistry at all. I tried convincing myself but physically it was awkward.

Hello, I'm dealing with the same thing. Luckily my "ex" isn't in my state but on social media. We need to keep our heads up and and move forward. We owe that to ourselves. I know it's easier said then done because I too am working until exhausted and feeling that ache sucks.

I wish. He said they met in August and he hopes it works out. 🥺

I know it wasn't ideal but to us it was. Apparently not for him. I just need to heal but it sucks. Thank you for responding!

We met on Xbox. Facetimed everyday. I was planning on moving to his location if things ever got serious. We looked at houses and talked about having kids. We met twice in person (COVID sucked).

I'm honestly crushed right now. I was seeing this guy long distance for 3 years. We were best friends and we're intimate. I feel like we met at the wrong time because I was freshly healing from a toxic relationship. (which he knew). We got into a bad fight last summer, it was my fault entirely. But I gave him space after. I've missed him everyday and hoped he would reach out to me but he never did. (I reached out on XBOX but unsent my msgs after). 3 days before his wedding, he let me know he's engaged and expecting a baby so on so forth with a huge a paragraph. I WAS SHOCKED. I wished him well. But the next day I knew I was heartbroken. I've been crying, can't sleep, it's been rough. I sent him message venting how these were our plans and I was healing before rekindling our romance. I went off on him. Obviously, I got no response and I'm even more upset. He hasn't deleted me off XBOX (where we met, but I deleted him) it hurts too ***ing much. I just can't believe this. In addition, his best friend posted the wedding on IG stories and I saw her. He and I had plans about our future and we never ended things like that. It was a fight that should have NEVER happened. I hate my life right now. I truly felt like we had a bond like no other. He moved on, got married, and is now going to be a dad - I feel like I never mattered. Edit to add: He met her in August her said. One month after our fight.