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Boy, don't guess a girl's thoughts As much as you guess, you'll never understand Guess wrong. And in her heart, you're a fool if you don't guess In her eyes you're a *** ++ So when a woman asks "What can you offer to me?" What does the woman really want?

You . yes you . who cheated on me and left me. IF what you feel is true If the meaning of love is you Then why out of the blue you leave me for someone new? You want the best for me How come you didn't see That leaving me is a misery Which I'll endure for eternity Memories haunts me relentlessly Feelings never fades utterly I pray and wish wholeheartedly Efface it for me eternally.

You really made my day! ^_^. Thank you! You are right! I would like to be your friend. I feel like I will learn a lot from you.

I'm grateful that I across someone like you. I couldn't say that I agree nor disagree with your thoughts. Everyone has their own opinion and different perspectives in life. It is what it is. What I learned with my experience in life, "You will never know how it feels until it happens to you". "You will never understand it unless you -- yourself experienced it". -Four

Hi there! It's been a month already since we broke up. I'm doing fine (I think I do). I'm doing everything I could to recover from my heartbreak (being cheated on). I'm keeping myself busy at work and even extending my working hours till I'm exhausted. In that way, once I got home -- All I need to do is to take a shower and sleep. Funny thing is, I decided to go down town. I was enjoying myself and taking a walk yesterday. I happened to passed a coffee shop while wandering around. And, I saw my ex gf with the guy she cheated on me dating there. I was surprisingly and terribly shocked. Thoughts that came into my head was "***, it's just been a month and you're already showing it to everyone around you that you're already with someone else." The worst thing is I happened to saw her brother and he told me "that the guy is already visiting her at home". I was like "Really, F*ck!. How could she do that? Am I really that worthless person to not show even a little respect". I decided not go inside the coffee shop (they didn't notice me though) and walked to the park instead. . While I'm walking, I am feel with rage and madness -- which led me of thinking of going back to the coffee shop but I decided not to. The reason is , "It's been a month that I am at peace with myself , yes I am still doing my best to move on but I'm doing fine. And, I don't want to ruined every effort I've done just to embarrass myself in front of the person who didn't show me any respect". Though my mind is clouded with the emotions I am feeling in that particular moment. I decided to go home to calm myself instead. I wasn't expecting any of those things. I guess we should "ALWAYS EXPECT THE WORST". It sucks but that's life. There's nothing I can do about it. At the end of the day, I only have myself whom I can rely on truly. -Four

I miss you but I know it would be much better to set things off for now. I did all I can and right now I exhausted and don't know how? How can I cope up with this sadness and loneliness I feel inside. Cause inside is my heart -- My heart who's dyin' Dyin' of the feeling emptiness because the one I love is long gone How I wish I could wake up in this dream and be with you even just once. But I know. these things are not coming And it makes my soul and heart crying

Thank you! I am grateful for all your responses.

I caught her cheating on me and going out with the guy. I asked and begged to her to fix our relationship -- asked her out to talk and figure out everything or where our relationship went wrong. Then, she sent me a letter. Asking sorry for everything, and it's the best for both of us that we broke up. She mentioned that she still couldn't figure out why she cheated a couple of times despite of my loyalty and faithfulness. She bid her farewell and said to forget her , that I should move forward with my life and wish me happiness as well as growth in my career. She said as well that she is happy and will be happy moving onwards. ++ For me, it's all sudden and still in shock that our 8 years of relationship just ended.