Cenkiz

I don't think giving to much information is worth a argument other wise how would you have a convo with out sharing info. All the conversations would end after a few sentences doesn't really seem like a vibe especially when some one asks you about something your passionate about im not a robot i cant shut down I have conversations daily with people who dont act like this. I dont expect her to be anything but her self, its difficult when a complete normal fun situation turns negative over nothing.

Wow yours sounds similar, the silent treatment and walking on egg shells about saying things. She has no friends also but doesn't have a problem going to parties if I take her but she doesn't know how to fully interact with people and can be a bit embarrassing at times, I can't imagine living with her and waking up to this mood as I am very chilled so its hard to think I can make some one annoyed by answering there question, its a strange situation always.

Thanks for sharing, your experience sounds very much like mine to a tee, almost to alike. I can't put up for much longer, doing things is a chore, rather than thinking this is going to be so much fun, I think at what point will it turn south and will the negativity come out, where a normal individual will just enjoy them selves and be them selves selflessy.

Sounds pretty toxic from an outside point of view, the best thing you can do is separate and cut him out of your life. See him if you have to for your son but don't tell him ANY details of your personal life. BUT familiarity can be deceiving and you have a connection with this guy, he treats you bad, has no idea what he wants but you can't separate fully, if you have the strength to do it move out, he won't change unless you love him that much to put up with the stress, it becomes the normal and you can't imagine a life with out as you've been with it for so long, disconnect and move on you'll be happier in the long run or grow old living with this 'man'

The only way you'll ever know is if you go meet him, I was the same when I first started dating, always questioning my self like im an alien lol after a few dates I realised people actually liked me for me and I was getting some where. You have to meet him for your self, if he compliments you and you both get on then whats to loose. You will have a good date and see where things go. Do it! don't over think it, if it doesnt work out on to the next 🙂

She refuses to see anyone but expects me to unravel why she's acting how she is and take the brunt force of it, she could get upset about something that doesn't make sense to me and start an argument out of nothing its just strange behaviour

Im not sure what her issue is to be honest, I have told her numerous times to talk to a counsellor or some one who can help, I can't see her issue's causing her to be a horrid person her family are quite similar as well. I can't put up with it much longer as dating or having a relationship should be enjoyable and fun, with ups and downs but not constant weird scenarios being blamed back and forth, I think there is a bigger issue but I am not sure what it is, some thing mental health wise but who knows!

You're beautiful, some one could not like me or some one could love me. You have one life and it's not worth not meeting the guy you want to meet, once you do it you'll realise there is nothing to be worried about, the chemistry is there thats all you need the universe is telling you to go for it. Your stretch marks matter to you but they wont to him in the best way possible, stop looking down on your self and look up, know that you can do anything you want to do, go for it! you have nothing to loose 🙂

Hi, I have been with my gf for 2 years now, she has ibs and all the signs of a very anxious person. Her anxiety is shown in different ways and it mainly comes out at me when we are together, for example if we go to a restaurant and she doesn't like the place (there wouldn't be anything wrong with the place) she will moan and will not enjoy her self - start arguing with me over nothing and pretty much ruin the night/day. She says it's her anxiety but I've met people who suffer with anxiety and they are not particularly mean people. She also says I need to be more understanding and softer, not sure if she's gaslighting me as Im pretty thoughtful and caring, her mood can twist and turn suddenly, she could meet me and act like she doesn't really want to meet like she wanted to stay at home but I always tell her if you want to meet later on etc thats fine no need to meet when your not ready. Her choices effect me and the vibe if we are together, we can be having a conversation and she'll think that I have given her to much info about what she asked and she starts getting anxious and annoyed, when I have really good convo's with friends, work colleges and family where we openly talk and don't get annoyed at each other. Has anyone experienced this behaviour before? or share there story to compare? Any info is appreciated.