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Hey heloladies21, i think you are getting the wrong idea, this is not about going to try and get back together, this is about maybe going, trying to show that I still care about her in my own way and that i want her to know i am here for her. And that dispite what happened between us, i'm still a friend to her. this breakup wasn't as bad as it sounds there weren't any cops or any let's just say stuff that makes a breakup worse then it ought to be, this was a breakup where she just had other stuff to worry about and and me that needs to grow up, and a few other miner faults, and see a therapist to fix them breakup. So I think you are getting the wrong idea... I don't know how mature you are, but talking to other girls won't help me right now. but thanks for the advice anybody else have a better idea, or suggestion other then heloladies21 that is more helpful? like smallworld's suggestion......

That's why I want to go, if not for getting back together persay, but to just show i'm not a scumbag that she remembers about me. But more like respect and show I hurt with her and that I am here for her even if she chooses not to confide in me. Oh I wish i knew what to do???????

Because I REALLy pissed her off and kind of brought it upon myself. I still think it was purely out of anger, She said i bring out the worse in her. i guess time will tell on that, but I'm still a little shaky on what to do. i was kinda close to her family when we were going out. But she might feel uncomftable if I am there. I think i'll have my friend ask her. This way I am not gonna sit and wonder gee what if. i just hope it's the right decision. I'm hoping maybe it will show that I still care and trying to be mature about the situation. I guess she can't hate me anymore if i'm willing to ask her to goto the funeral......

Should i ask my friend who knows her if he would ask her if she would feel uncomftable if I go to the funeral? That way if she saids yes, i know forsure that i shouldn't go?

we broke up because I have some issues to take care of from my childhood and not ready to love right now. I have no self esteem and act like a child. My child hood haunts me right now and I need to grow up. and she can't deal with my childish behavior. I need to mature. It wasn't like it was a violent relationship. It just got bad at the end when we just couldn't talk anymore. Is there a reason that i shouldn't goto the wake or funeral?

Hi All, This is my first post and am in a really in an awkward situation and looking for some advice. I was dating a girl for a year and a half and we just broke up like a week ago. The last thing she said to me was that she hated me and that she never wanted to see me again and to leave her alone forever. I don't know yet if that was out of anger or she really meant it? I still love her dearly. Now here's the delimma, I just found out her dad just died this week from cancer and I haven't talked to her in a week. Do I call her and give her my condolences? Do I just write a letter to her? She is sure not gonna call me about this. i heard from a friend that knows her about her dad, that's how i found out. . And also, do i goto the wake and funeral. do i just goto the wake and not the funeral or do I not do anything? Please help, Any advice would be greatful......I'm so hurt and confused right now. I have no idea what to do..... Thanks, Heart broken